Your last moments with your dad sound almost identical to my last moments with my mom. Only one awake in the house, holding her hand, listening to that fish-out-of-water breathing getting slower and fainter until there just...weren't any more. One of those memories that doesn't fade.

{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}

But on a happier note -- Happy Birthday to your little Libra Sun child with his sensitive Cancer Moon!